When it comes to a swinger dinner date, there are certain etiquette guidelines and considerations that should be kept in mind. Swinging involves consensual non-monogamous relationships and interactions, so communication and respect are paramount. Here are some dos and don'ts to help ensure a positive and respectful experience:
Do
Communicate Boundaries
Before you dig into that delicious dinner, sit down with your companions and have an open chat about everyone's boundaries and comfort levels. Make sure you're all on the same page about what's on the menu and what's off-limits.
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Practice Active Consent
During the dinner, keep a keen eye on your partner's comfort level and make sure all activities are consensual. Check in with each other regularly and be ready to adjust plans if needed.
Dress to Impress
Put on your appropriate attire and dress respectfully for the occasion. If you're hitting up a public restaurant, follow their dress code like a pro.
Politeness is Key
Treat your dinner partners with the utmost respect and courtesy. Show off your active listening skills and be mindful of each other's feelings.
Hygiene High-Five
Before you head out, take care of your personal hygiene to create a pleasant atmosphere and show respect for your partners.
Follow Venue Rules
Whether you're at a restaurant or any other public joint, be a rule-abiding customer and follow all the guidelines.
Shhh... Discretion is the Word
Keep things hush-hush and respect the privacy of everyone involved. Save the spicy details for your swinging buddies, not the outside world.
Don't
No Pressure, Just Pleasure
Never ever pressure or coerce anyone into anything they're not into. Enthusiastic and freely given consent is the name of the game.
Keep it Classy, Not Chatty
Steer clear of oversharing personal or intimate deets about your relationships or others. No TMI zone here!
Tipsy, Not Drunk
Sip on a drink or two, but stay away from going overboard. Being too sloshed can lead to bad decisions and cross boundaries.
Ask, Don't Assume
Always ask for clear consent before diving into any activities. Avoid assumptions like the plague to keep things smooth and comfy.
No Judgment Zone
Swinging is a consensual lifestyle choice, so let's be supportive and non-judgmental of everyone's preferences.
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PDA?
A little affection is sweet, but consider the setting and make sure everyone's comfy with public displays of affection.
Safety First, Always!
If things heat up after dinner, remember to practice safe sex like rockstars. Use condoms and protection to keep it groovy and safe.
Communication + Respect = a successful swinger date. Everyone involved should feel valued and heard throughout the experience.
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